Second thoughts?

by Azareth
(Northampton PA)

I am in a sticky situation. For the past year my husband and I have been wanting to seperate. But now that it is getting down to the point of him moving out I am having second thoughts. We have both done things to hurt each other and his recent conduct has made me not trust him. He says he wants to work things out but then he does not.And I dont know if its the fear of being by myself that wants me to work things out with him or if I truely do love him.We do have three children together and I would hate to put them thru it as well. Lost?

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Sep 19, 2014
by: zeenath

everyone wants to seperate at a point of time when we feel nothings happening right but children are very important compromise

Mar 10, 2012
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by: Anonymous

sounds like you could benifit from a little me time .Take time to get to know how you feel living on your own you may be pleasently surprised to see there is more to life then being with one person.

Sep 03, 2011
Ur not alone
by: Ann

Im reading your post and thinking ur in the same boat as me! Then I thought about most of my friends and family and realised We Are Not Alone!!!!
We've all done things that hurt each other and the grass is always greener. I think you know deep down whether u want to stay for the right reasons...and I dont mean the kids. Take time out for yourself. Join a group of interest, meditate, find friends that make you laugh and most important....Find you again! Focus on you for a while.....Know what I mean jellybean? LOL

Jul 07, 2011
second thoughts
by: Anonymous

Seconds thougths, I think that you got to think for yourself
What is better for your kid, because they are the more affected by their parents' relationships.

Jul 05, 2011
being innocent
by: Anonymous

Please try to be kind and gentle. And always forgive him for whatever wrong he does. Try taking him to church or any sorts of festivals or celebrations which will get his mood better. If you get a chance just tell him you care for him. And if it doesn't work, I am sorry.

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